Marriage in Islam holds great significance as it is considered a sacred bond between two individuals, established with the intention of building a strong, faithful, and loving relationship. It is not merely a legal contract but a spiritual union that fulfills both worldly and religious duties.
It bears many good outcomes of which the most important ones are:
The formation of a family through which one can find security and peace of mind. A person who is not married resembles a bird without a nest. Marriage serves as a shelter for anyone who feels lost in the wilderness of life; one can find a partner in life who would share one’s joy and sorrow. Among the many responsibilities within this union are the duties of a wife in Islam, which emphasize nurturing love, respect, and harmony within the family.
And The natural physical desire is both strong and significant. Everyone should have a partner for satisfying their needs in a secure and serene environment. Everyone should enjoy satisfaction in a correct and proper manner. Those who abstain from marriage often suffer from both physical and psychological disorders. Such disorders and certain social problems are a direct consequence of the abstinence of youth from marriage.
And also Through marriage the procreation of mankind is continued. Children are the result of marriage and are important factors in stabilizing the family foundations as well as a source of real joy to their parents.
The Quran says about marriage as a relationship built on love and mutual understanding. Allah says:
“And among His signs is this, that He created for you spouses from among yourselves, that you may dwell in tranquility with them, and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts).”
Islam highlights equality and mutual respect between spouses. Each partner has rights and duties, including financial support, emotional care, responsibilities, respect for each other’s dignity.
In Islam getting married is a virtuous act and is also established as a Sunnah and has emphasized the importance of marriage because it serves as a means for an individual to protect their faith and safeguard themselves from the influence of Satan.
The Prophet (peace be upon him) said:
“When a man marries, he has fulfilled half of his religion, so let him fear Allah regarding the remaining half.”
The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said:
“Marriage is part of my Sunnah, and whoever does not follow my Sunnah has nothing to do with me. Get married, for I will boast of your great numbers before the other nations on the Day of Resurrection.”
(Sunan Ibn Majah)
Marriage is a recommended practice of the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) and an integral part of Islamic life.
The status of man is higher than such deeds.
Human beings are meant to train themselves and their souls by gaining knowledge, committing good deeds, and behaving with good manners
Man is meant to take steps along the straight path to achieve nearness to Almighty Allah. Mankind is a creation that is able to cleanse his soul and by avoiding evil deeds and exercising good behavior reach a level of such high status that even the angels are not able to attain. Man is a creature that is eternal. He has come to this world so that by the guidance of the prophets and the implementation of the programs set by the religion (of Islam), to secure his happiness in this world and the Hereafter; so that he could live a peaceful life in the next world eternally.
In the Quran, Allah has stated that men are protectors and maintainers of women, indicating their role as leaders and guardians over women, and highlighting that they are entrusted with the responsibility of being the head of the household.
“Men are the protectors and maintainers of women because Allah has given one more strength than the other, and because they support them from their means.” Surah nisa
In today’s era, many women claim that men and women are equal and that there is no difference in rank between them. However, this notion is not correct. A Muslim woman should always reflect on what Islam says about such matters. When Allah has declared men as protectors and maintainers over women, who are we to challenge this and demand equality in this sense?
This does not imply any injustice towards women; rather, Islam is a beautiful and wise religion that has granted great honor to women. There are profound wisdoms behind men being designated as protectors. For instance, women are created delicate, while men go out to work, face difficulties, and endure hardships to provide for their families.
Therefore, a woman should acknowledge and accept the leadership of men and treat them with respect. This system is not meant to undermine women but to create balance and harmony in society, reflecting the wisdom and justice of Islam.
So let we listen the duties of women towards her husband
Obedience
Firstly, a woman should always obey her husband in all his lawful matters and never refuse him.
The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said:
“If a woman prays her five daily prayers, fasts during the month of Ramadan, guards her chastity, and obeys her husband, she will enter Paradise from whichever gate she wishes.”
And in another hadith
The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said:
“If a woman offers her prayers, fasts in the month of Ramadan, guards her chastity, and obeys her husband, she will be told: ‘Enter Paradise from whichever gate you wish.’”
The prophet peace be upom him said
“A woman who dies while her husband is pleased with her will enter Paradise.”
Respecting Her Husband:
The desire for respect is an inherent one, but not everyone is willing to give it readily. Your husband is in contact with many people during the day while away from home. Some may be impolite and insulting him which eventually can upset the person. As his wife, he expects you to show respect and encouragement at home and thereby boost his trampled ego.
To honor and respect your husband does not belittle you, but it provides energy and inclination to struggle to make a better life. You should always greet him, and with your greeting, give him a feeling of veneration. Do not interrupt him when he is talking. Be courteous and polite when you are talking to him and do not shout at him. Let him enter first when both of you are going to a meeting.
Praise him in front of others. Ask your children to respect him and reprimand them if they are discourteous towards him. Be respectful of him in front of guests and be attentive to his needs, as well as the guests. When he is knocking at the door you should try to open the door with a smile and a happy expression. This small act of happiness has such an effect that it refreshes the man’s tired spirits. Some women may think that such behaviour is strange. Imagine greeting your husband as if he was a guest.
This is not the correct attitude because the man has been struggling all the day for the well-being of his family and he deserves some consideration and respect when he returns home.
Islam places a great emphasis on mutual respect between husband and wife. A wife should treat her husband with kindness, support, and understanding.
“Live with them in kindness.” (Quran)
Fulfilling the Husband’s Rights:
A wife should fulfill her husband’s needs, including intimacy and affection, in a way that is respectful and within the boundaries of Islamic teachings.
In hadith tha prophet peace be upom him said that
“When a husband calls his wife to his bed, let her respond to him.”
(Sahih Muslim)
And wife should also know the Importance of Respecting the Husband:
The Prophet (peace be upon him) said:
“It is not permissible for a woman to fast when her husband is present unless he gives her permission, and she should not allow anyone to enter his house without his permission.”
(Sahih al-Bukhari)
Loyalty and Devotion
The Prophet (peace be upon him) said:
“A woman who prays her five daily prayers, fasts during the month of Ramadan, guards her chastity, and obeys her husband, she will enter Paradise from whichever gate she wishes.”
(Sahih al-Bukhari)
woman should remain loyal to her husband, as loyalty is a cornerstone of a strong and harmonious marriage in Islam.
This loyalty is not just in words, but in actions, ensuring that the relationship remains built on trust, respect, and faithfulness. By being loyal, a wife supports her husband emotionally, spiritually, and physically, and works to maintain the integrity of their marriage.
The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) emphasized that a woman’s loyalty to her husband brings immense rewards, both in this life and the hereafter,A loyal wife helps create a loving, stable environment for the family, which is central to a strong and prosperous society.
Give happiness
The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said:
“The best of women are those who are loving, fertile, and when you look at them, they make you happy; when you give them an order, they obey you.”
It is stated:
‘The greatest gain for a man is a faithful woman who, when she sees him, becomes happy and protects his property and her own honor in his absence’.
